Ideas about life

1. I am not interested in making a great first impression, especially for those we will meet and hang out very often.
For them, first impression is usually not important;
good impression will let others expect more, if somehow you don't reach their expectation, you will disappoint them in the end;
if you leave them a normal impression at the first time and do some excellent job in the end, you will surprise them and earn their trust.

2. People are judgemental. They like to judge you based on what you say. If you don't like to talk or not good at talking big, they think you are weak in communication. In my mind, interview usually doesn't work, all smart companies have several rounds of interview to filter out who is genius and who sucks, because they know it's hard to *know* one person. When people think you are not good enough, work hard to prove them wrong.